kanaya's happiest memories are all of her mother. she had the best fucking lusus you guys. one mentioned in canon was on twelfth perigee's eve, they had a quiet night in while kanaya read stories to her grubmom. probably stories about vampires in love.

there are many contenders for worst memory, but all of them pale in the face of the matriorb being destroyed. with that died all of kanaya's hopes and ambitions, her final connection to her mother, her very purpose. after that she almost didn't mind dying.

in-game she has a few fond memories. prom was a lot of fun, and everything involving the magazine, as well as working with jade to help evacuate the endangered residents of the aleutian islands and getting to be a hero without anyone getting hurt. worst memory might be having dave tell everyone about her crush on rose, though it was no walk in the park when gamzee ripped her arm off, either.