She just has to be Fonrar. He literally has zero attraction towards other races or even other female draconians.

Which is good for him because she loves him too!

And... to describe Fonrar: she's very strong-willed, independent, and doesn't put up with shit. This is a woman who decided that if the males wouldn't teach her and the other females how to use weapons, they'd just learn on their own in secret! Fuck that. She hates being coddled or told something is for her own good, and she is more than capable of kicking ass or killing if it's required. She's also an extremely good leader and tactician, just like him.