http://littletoorough.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] littletoorough.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] goshdarnspam2009-12-19 08:26 pm
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[identity profile] jewpryde.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
They humor me because I'm the baby.

[identity profile] hope-damnit.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:06 pm (UTC)(link)
There are many reasons for friendship. Respect is one of those reasons, or should be.

If you were not respected, then you would not have enjoyable company.

[identity profile] jewpryde.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
I know they respect me...

[identity profile] hope-damnit.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
What is it that you seek, then?

[identity profile] jewpryde.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Independence. But I'm afraid.

[identity profile] hope-damnit.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
It's frightening, to be independent. It implies that you must be alone.

However, I do not think that is necessarily the case. It simply means that you have the ability to take charge for yourself. Depending on others is not a weakness, either. It is often required, no matter who you are.

[identity profile] jewpryde.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I'll keep that in mind.

[identity profile] hope-damnit.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
You are welcome.

All will be well.

[identity profile] grenadeball.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
honest opinion:

i think you play up this bit of yourself, because you have trouble knowing/trying other ways to act or be

[identity profile] jewpryde.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Changing a group dynamic is hard. And scary. I'm afraid to be alone but I also want independence.

[identity profile] grenadeball.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)
are you also afraid that you'd wonk so hard into the 'INDEPENDENCE YEAHHHHHH' segment that you'd be forcing out a part of yourself that isn't you in a grab to be treated differently

[identity profile] jewpryde.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know. I got a taste of independence before I came here but it was lonely.

[identity profile] grenadeball.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
then you've yet to learn how to rock it naturally

independence does not, and never does, mean 'cut off connections with others'